After you have completed your “Reservation” for the Couples Retreat, you will receive the link to this page to complete your payment for the weekend.  If you have NOT completed your reservation, please click here and do that BEFORE completing your payment

If you are paying by check, please do the following:

  1. The cost for the weekend is $190.00 per couple.  If you have indicated that you will donate something to the NMMW scholarship fund, that amount should be added to your payment. 
  2. Write your check, payable to “New Mexico Men’s Wellness” for the total amount.  Include “Couples 2019” in the “Memo” field on your check. 
  3. Include a note with the following information and enclose it with your check: Your name and the name of the parson you are attending with, your telephone number and your Email address.
  4. Mail your check and note to:
    Robby Beck
    PO Box 972
    Clayton, NM  88415

Receipt of your check will be confirmed by Email. 

If you are paying for reservation online (with Credit Card or PayPal), please complete the following payment form.  When the form is completed and submitted, you will be taken to our payment page to complete your payment. 

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Clicking on the “Submit” button (at left) will save your payment information and take you to the payment where you complete your online payment.  When completed you will receive email confirmation of your information form NMMW and payment confirmation from PayPal. 




Registration opens at Noon on March 1st

Theme of the Retreat

Not only merely Wed*, but Truly and Sincerely Wed: Overcoming hurdles in relationship to keep the fire burning


Dates and Location

May 17th (evening), 18th, 19th at Amba and Chittak Caldwell’s Hacienda in Corrales.  The address and directions to the Caldwell Hacienda will be sent after you register.

Facilitated by Gina Windle and Robby Beck

A New Mexico Men’s Wellness sanctioned production

About the Retreat

Open and inclusive to all couples regardless of age, ethnicity, race, marital status, or sexual orientation. Limited to a total of 12 couples. 

Gather with a small community of couples at a lovely southwestern Hacienda in Corrales to identify and overcome hurdles in relationship, to heal and to stoke the fire in each couple’s union. Since 2016 couples have been meeting together each year in retreat to laugh, cry, listen, be heard, share, love and support one another with a common goal of growing and improving their relationships as couples.  Some of the couples have been together for decades, others for less than a year.  Each participant brings their wisdom, world view and life experience, which can be shared for the benefit of others. 

The retreat will commence between 4:00pm and 5:30 pm Friday with a potluck dinner at 6:00pm.  We will meet Friday evening and dismiss at approximately 9:00pm. 

We will gather Saturday morning after you have had your breakfast and begin meeting at 9:00am. Lunch and dinner will be provided including carnivorous, vegetarian and gluten-free options.  We will conclude Saturday evening at 8:00pm. 

We will gather after your breakfast at 9:00am Sunday.  We will meet Sunday morning, a light lunch will be provided, and we will dismiss following tear-down of the shelters and clean up early Sunday afternoon.  

Throughout the weekend there will be periods of free time to rest, go for walks and enjoy the beautiful surroundings.  Last year we got to see baby owls! 

This is a smoke-free and fragrance-free environment.  

For information, contact Robby Beck, or 575.207.5992 or Gina Windle, or 505.652.6051

The cost for the weekend is $190 per couple. 

Scholarships are available. If you need a scholarship, contact Gina or Robby. 

Reserving Your Spot at the Retreat

As of this writing, the Couples Retreat is full and we are not accepting any more reservations.  If you have any questions about anything connected with the Couples Retreat, please contact Robby or Gina via phone or Email listed above. 

Dear Friends,

The 2019 NMMW Couples Retreat is scheduled for May 17 – 19, 2019 at Chitak and Amba Caldwell’s lovely hacienda in Corrales, NM.  Once again, they have offered to open up their home for the Couples Retreat.  Since 2016 couples have been meeting together each year in Retreat to laugh, cry, listen, be heard, share, love and support one another with a common goal of growing and improving their relationships as couples. 

We are taking Online Reservations beginning on Friday, March 1st at 12 noon (MST), and will be limited to 12 couples, including the leaders.  Please complete the reservation form and submit it no earlier than noon on March 1st.  Reservations will be accepted based on the time submitted.  Reservations with an earlier submission time will not be considered.  Each couple planning to attend must complete the online reservation form.  When your reservation is accepted, you will sent information about how to complete your payment either online or by mailing a check. 

The cost of the Retreat is $190 per couple.  This will cover the cost of materials, catered meals at lunch and dinner, snacks, and clean up after the Retreat.  Breakfasts and lodging will be up to you.  We hope that local registrants will open their homes to out of town participants to keep the cost of lodging to a minimum.

Invite your spouse or partner to join you for a weekend of appreciation and enrichment of your relationship.  We look forward to seeing you there!


Robby and Gina

Please complete the Reservation Request below.  You MUST click the “Submit” button near the bottom of the form to register your information:

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Please note that space is limited and after you click “Submit” your reservation will be acknowledged by return email.  Once we reach our limit, each additional couple will be placed on a standby list and will be notified accordingly.  The fee for the Retreat is $190 per couple.  Payment will be requested, by check, credit card or PayPal upon confirmation of your registration.


Please fill out the information below to register online and pay with a Credit Card or PayPal for the 2019 Father-Daughter Gathering.

Registration will remain open until we reach registration capacity of 12 Father and Daughter pairs.  We will have a waiting list beyond this point.  

If you’d rather mail in a printed registration form and a check, click here for a pdf form you can download, fill in with your information, and mail-in along with your payment by check.

Note: Registration and payment must be completed for each person participating in the Gathering. This means that if a father is registering for himself and his daughter (or vice versa) she/he will need to go through this procedure twice, once for the father and once for the daughter. If registering for your daughter (or father), please be sure to include their email address (and other contact information) in the registration (not yours) so that they will receive the appropriate communications prior to the Gathering.

Please note our refund policy: Cancellations received within two weeks of the event are refundable at 90% of the amount paid.  Cancellations within less than two weeks of the event are not refundable unless the position is filled from the waiting list (refundable at 90%). 

Please complete the registration form below: 

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When you enter the “captcha” code and click the “Submit” button (at left), you will be directed to our payment page to complete your transaction.  The payment page will automatically total up all of the options that you have chosen on your registration form and present you with the total for payment.  When you have completed the form, you will be directed to a secure payment page to pay on line via credit card or PayPal. When the process is completed you will receive two Email confirmations: one for the registration and one for the receipt of payment. This will be your registration record.