2018 Spring Retreat is April 13-15

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Registration for the Spring Retreat has CLOSED.

NEW MEXICO MEN’S WELLNESS

INVITATION TO THIS YEAR’S
SPRING 2018 RETREAT

Sex & Intimacy:
Fifty Shades of Light and Shadow

April 13, 14 and 15, 2018

at Hummingbird Music Camp
104 Hummingbird Road, Jemez Springs NM 87025

Led by Mark Pugsley & Vittorio LaCerva

(Joseph Woods photo)

Repression, shame, first sex, the hunt, ecstasy, intimacy, aging, sexuality — we delve into the healthy and unhealthy aspects of these vital areas of our lives. We will move from secrecy to authenticity together, from the wounded Lover to conscious, empowered masculinity.


Open and inclusive to all men regardless of age, ethnicity, race, marital
status, or sexual orientation.  Limited to a total of 30 men.

We urge you to consider inviting a young man or men to this gathering.  There will be a special small group for younger men, like last year.

“For she had eyes and chose me.” — William Shakespeare, Othello

(Uwe Schroeter Photo)

(Joseph Woods photo)

Gather with a small community of men in a natural setting to explore, heal, and vitalize relationship, sex and intimacy themes over a Friday to Sunday program that will involve individual and small group experiential

activities. We all carry relational histories: a mosaic of love and wounds, light and shadow, secrets and authenticity. We will cover topics of internalized messages about sex and intimacy; recognizing instinctual masculine-feminine drives; releasing regrets and shame; clarifying and identifying our own understanding of relational integrity and authenticity.

“Your love should never be offered to the mouth of a Stranger; Only to someone who has the valor and daring to cut pieces of their soul off with a knife, then weave them into a blanket to protect you.” — Hafiz

Registration and room assignments will be between 4 and 5:30 pm Friday evening with our potluck dinner at 6:00.  We are at the North Campus.  Feel free to come to Hummingbird anytime on Friday and enjoy the land. Accommodations are double rooms (you can visit the new website to view the rooms at http://hummingbirdmusiccamp.com/about-our-camp/hummingbird-campus/north-campus/).

The cost of Hummingbird meals for the weekend is $40.  There is an optional $10 linens charge (towels, sheets & pillowcase), or you can bring your own towel, sheets and blanket (or sleeping bag) and pillow.  You may also bring a tent or sleep in your camper for $10 per night (expect freezing temperatures in April at this elevation).  See the registration forms (linked below) for a complete list of costs.  Further detailed information (with logistical details and some homework from your leaders) will be sent by Email one week prior to the retreat.

(Joseph Woods photo)

Friday night we will have our traditional pot-luck meal starting at 6:00 PM. Please bring HEALTHY food to share, a main dish, vegetable dish, or dessert. All other meals will be served by Hummingbird (Hummingbird offers vegetarian and gluten-free food options).   You may opt-out of ALL Hummingbird meals, but if opting-out, must bring your own food, pots and pans.  Flatware will be provided and a refrigerator is available.

Directions to the Camp:  http://hummingbirdmusiccamp.com/maps-and-directions/     Emergency numbers for Hummingbird: (575) 829-3060 or (575) 829-4227 (don’t count on cell phone coverage in the Jemez).

We believe that the cost of an event should not prevent anyone from participating in our events, and have scholarship funds available to support those who need it.  If you need assistance, please scroll down to the “Scholarship” section near the bottom of this page.  It contains the information you need to complete and submit a scholarship request.

“Everyone gets wounded in this world and everyone has within them some golden qualities that can serve to heal the wounds of time and the traumatic effects of human tragedy.”  — Michael Meade

How to Register for the Retreat

If you are reading this on our website, then registration for the Spring 2018 Retreat is open.  There are two options for registration, mail-in (with payment by check) or online (with payment by credit card or PayPal).   If applying for scholarship assistance, please read the details in the Scholarships section below.  If you need assistance to participate, please do not hesitate to apply for a scholarship.

Registration for the Spring Retreat has closed effective April 8, 2018.  There MAY be a few additional slots available from from late cancellations, so if you would like to be placed on a “cancellation” waiting list, please contact Bill Duncan at web244@aol.com or by phone to (505) 379-5655.

We also have a printable three-page PDF flyer (click here to download it) that includes a registration form that you may download, print and share with any friends you’d like to invite to the Retreat.  The Spring retreat can be a great, and low-cost introduction to Men’s Wellness for men of all ages and backgrounds.

“The Spring Retreat was my first experience of what New Mexico Men’s Wellness is about.  At this weekend in 2008, I met many amazing men who I still consider some of my best friends and teachers.  It is the one NMMW event that I absolutely refuse to miss” — Jim Connolly

Scholarships

New Mexico Men’s Wellness wants as many men as possible to participate in and benefit from our events.  For this reason we encourage new men, younger men or anyone needing financial assistance to apply for it.  We have funds available for this purpose.  To apply, please download and complete the following by clicking on the following links:

  1. A Scholarship Application Form
  2. A Mail-in Registration Form (Please complete all information and options but do not send any payment)

Those wishing to apply for a scholarship should fill out a “mail-in” registration form using Adobe Acrobat Reader (NOT the PDF viewer in their web browser), and save it on their computer.  They should also fill out a scholarship application form and save that on their computer also.  Both files should be sent to Vittorio LaCerva (heartsongsvittorio@gmail.com) for review.  The review process should take no more than a week, after which applicants will be apprised of their status.  NMMW does require some contribution with the minimum of $25.  The forms may also printed on paper, completed and mailed to: Vittorio LaCerva, 52 Zambra Way, Santa Fe, NM 87506.  Mailed-in requests will likely take a bit more time to review.

If you have any questions about the Scholarship program, please contact Vittorio via Email to heartsongsvittorio@gmail.com or by telephone at 505-983-4233.

(Joseph Woods photo)


Photo Notes: In most cases, you can see a larger version of included photos by clicking on the photos with your mouse.

If you need to download Adobe’s Free Acrobat Reader (very useful for lots of things including reading flyers, registration forms and stuff we will send before the retreat) please click on the logo below which will take you to Adobe’s site and assist with getting it installed:

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